FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[haebin.livejournal.com]

*lol*
Du bist knuffig :P
Natürlich add ich dich, du bist doch mein Schatz :3

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Natürlich adde ich dich, das ist doch gar keine Frage :3

[haebin.livejournal.com]

*huggles*
No, you don't have to get a heart attack *huggles again*

And you are always good enough to be my friend. I love you ♥~

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Okay ^-^

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Klar doch, Tsa :D

[haebin.livejournal.com]

You know ... I made the entry because of such people like you. You never commented in my LJ, you never wrote one fucking word, but you wanna read what's going on in my life? Sorry, but my LJ is not a place for the amusement of others.

[nukucamui.livejournal.com]

No, I understand. I've been in very dark places as well, and I don't like tell people how I got there, because it brings back bad memories as well. It is hard to tell strangers how you feel about things. But, I don't think of you as a stranger. :) Like I said, I always want to comment, however for some reason I never get the chance to. It's not that I forget, it's just, once I am able to read your journals, it's been a day or so, and I get worried about commenting on a bad day that it may make the day become bad again. I worry about you Anke dear. *hugs and cuddles*

[gakuto-lover.livejournal.com]

Würdest du mich bitte wieder verlinken??^^

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

I'm not going to ask you to re-add me :)
I do read almost all of your entries, but I think "friendship" between two persons is a matter of two as well and I don't feel good with myself "asking" for anything hehe.

Anyway... I think this method is quite useless, because if someone never comments on your entries and now come here and ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

[keishiiikeis.livejournal.com]

Could i have you added back? This past year, reading your posts have given me strength during my lows, and i dont wanna not be able to follow you anymore =(

[mary-in-wonder.livejournal.com]

OMG this friends-cut craze reached you too o.o nowadays everybody does this...#_#
would it disturb you if i were on your flist again? *.* <3333333

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Verlinken? oO
Ich denke, du meinst re-adden, oder? ^^

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Esti *hugs*
Do you know, what's funny? I re-added you before you gave me an answer, because I thought, you would write something like that ;)

I know, some people could think, that a friends-cut it's a little bit offending. But I saw one good thing. All the people I like and I'm talking a lot, they posted a comment in this entry. And I saw, I was not wrong with my feelings :)
And the rest of the people, who are friended me (who knows why o_O) and never commented before, they didn't wrote a comment here. So, I was not wrong ;)

ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

But you are wrong ;)
applebeesvirus wanted to stay here, but she wrote never ever a comment. And I said no :)

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Okay. I know, you commented here in my LJ. I don't wanna force you to comment, but many people here where my friends and I don't know why. And that's so irritating...

[haebin.livejournal.com]

What O.O
Everyone is making a friends-cut? Really O_O
Wow ... I didn't know this. But hey, dearie, you don't have to be worry *hugs*
You are not disturbing me. I love you too much that you could disturbing me *huggles you again* :333

[minime17.livejournal.com]

I try to comment as often as I can,but I can rarely get to the internet lately.And sometimes when I want to say something,I read the rest of the comments and somebody else has already said what I wanted.And then I think-what's the point of writing the same thing again.
So...I won't force you to re-add me,but I would really like to stay.

[keishiiikeis.livejournal.com]

Its perfectly understandable. This just shows how significant your friends are to you, and how you want only meaningful relationships. As in, i guess it feels better and more secure when you post, that you are talking to people who sincerely want to know about you and hear what you have to say.

[gakuto-lover.livejournal.com]

Hai XD

[http://users.livejournal.com/_ananda_/]

I would like to remain on your friends list Anke, but only if you feel comfortable having me there. I know what it's like having people on your friends list you don't feel comfortable with, it's not a nice feeling.

I would miss you though ;_;

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

I'm very glad you re-added me ^______^ *hugs* And it's interesting that you did it before reading my comment hehe, it shows we can manage to know each other at least a little bit through internet :DD

but she wrote never ever a comment. And I said no :)
Then I'm glad about being wrong hehe xDD Great (http://photobucket.com)

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

BTW (sorry for the spam hehe), before leaving my comment I took a look at my f-list and you hadn't me added O_o

[haebin.livejournal.com]

O_o;;
Damn LJ *kicks it*
Moah ... this thing never do what I want. So, I added you again. And I hope, it finally works ... if not, I will punish it >D *cuddles*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

You don't have to be worried, Trisha. In the last time you became to me a good friend. And I know this uncomfortable feeling. And this was the reason about this friends-cut. I noticed, that all of my entries (or the most of them) are really personal and important and to know, that everyone can read it ... that was finally the reason, that I made the cut. And I'm really glad that all the people I like commented in this entry, including you :)

So, sorry for the loooooong comment ^^
*hugs*

[novalee17.livejournal.com]

ich hoff, ich bin nicht zu spät... :( ich weiß, ich commente auch nicht wirklich oft, vor allem in letzter zeit nicht, aber mich interessiert wirklich wie es dir geht und was du machst. also, würd ich auch gern auf deiner flist bleiben... :)

[haebin.livejournal.com]

*rofl*
Du bezeichnest mich als Meerschweinchen? ^^
Okay, auch gut ... weil du es bist, darfste mich so nennen xP