FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[keishiiikeis.livejournal.com]

Could i have you added back? This past year, reading your posts have given me strength during my lows, and i dont wanna not be able to follow you anymore =(

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Okay. I know, you commented here in my LJ. I don't wanna force you to comment, but many people here where my friends and I don't know why. And that's so irritating...

[keishiiikeis.livejournal.com]

Its perfectly understandable. This just shows how significant your friends are to you, and how you want only meaningful relationships. As in, i guess it feels better and more secure when you post, that you are talking to people who sincerely want to know about you and hear what you have to say.

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Yes, exactly the words you wrote, were my intention :)

PS: I added you back :)