FRIENDS-CUT
Aug. 25th, 2007 12:32 amI really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like
dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
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Date: 2007-08-24 10:49 pm (UTC)I want to be added. I want to be your friend *_*
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Date: 2007-08-24 10:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-24 10:52 pm (UTC)I miss you so very much, my Dear...
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Date: 2007-08-24 10:59 pm (UTC)I love you, don't forget that *hugs again*
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Date: 2007-08-24 10:59 pm (UTC)you know, i know...
grosse liebe <3333
k
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Date: 2007-08-24 11:00 pm (UTC)*reknuff*
Du musst dir keine Gedanken machen, wenn du noch nicht so viel geschrieben hast. Es geht eher darum, dass ich irgendwie über 100 friends hatte und geschrieben haben immer nur die gleichen. Die werden auch weiterhin hier bleiben, mit Sicherheit. Nur bin ich es auch irgendwo leid, dass irgendwie jeder mitlesen kann, wie es mir geht ^^
Deshalb eigentlich der Cut ;)
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Date: 2007-08-24 11:01 pm (UTC)I love you too ♥♥♥
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Date: 2007-08-24 11:04 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2007-08-24 11:10 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-24 11:19 pm (UTC)Ich kenn dich ja auch persönlich. Und nur weil man hier nicht jeden Tag reinschreibt, muss das ja nicht gleich heißen, dass ich jeglichen Kontakt abbrechen will *knuff*
Geht mir nur darum, dass ich einfach Menschen ermöglichen möchte, zu sagen, wenn sie kein Interesse haben, hier mitzulesen, können sie auch draußen bleiben ^^
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Date: 2007-08-24 11:23 pm (UTC)ich leibe dich dear
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Date: 2007-08-24 11:23 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-24 11:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-24 11:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-24 11:37 pm (UTC)i'm sorry if my comments go on & off. sometimes i comment a lot & other times I fall off the face of the earth. i'm sorry xD;;
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Date: 2007-08-25 12:12 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-25 12:30 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-25 01:51 am (UTC)please..add me?
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Date: 2007-08-25 02:15 am (UTC)Ah, don't worry *hugs again*
It's not a bad thing when you don't comment every entry of mine ^^
It's not necessary. But I was a little bit annoyed about some people who wants to be friended withe me without a reason ... and I ask myself: Why are they here? I mean, they never wrote a comment or something like that. So, I made a new friends-cut. And it showed me one thing. The people I like and love, they make a comment here and I'm really happy about it =D
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Date: 2007-08-25 02:19 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-08-25 02:21 am (UTC)Don't worry, of course I added you back :D
*huggles* ♥~~~
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Date: 2007-08-25 02:27 am (UTC)But okay, I'll add you back.
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Date: 2007-08-25 02:30 am (UTC)But okay, I know you long enough ^^
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Date: 2007-08-25 03:02 am (UTC)