FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[isha-chan.livejournal.com]

*lifts a hand*

I want to be added. I want to be your friend *_*

[louchette.livejournal.com]

*makes sad puppy face*

you know, i know...

grosse liebe <3333

k

[fang-yin.livejournal.com]

sorry, wenn ich nicht wirklich viel in deine Einträge schreibe, ich versuche es so oft ich kann, aber ich vergesse es einfach sehr schnell. Ich schaffe es noch nicht mal bei mir einen Eintrag zu schreiben, aber ich versuche so oft ich kann bei dir rein zuschreiben, und ich würde mich freuen wenn ich in deiner Friends-List bleiben könnte.

[omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com]

can I be added back? i want to be your friend :) ♥

[chani-atreides.livejournal.com]

Well, I never comment and I loooove my smilie entries, can I stay anyway? I just don't know what to say, but I'd like to stay updated because I am interested :X

[nukucamui.livejournal.com]

:( Im sorry I dont comment often. I rarely comment on LJ. I like to read how you're doing though, and you are often in my thoughts. I know I should comment more, and I keep telling myself that. I promise I'll start more. Could I be readded back to your friends list? :(

[danmaku.livejournal.com]

*jumps up to be noticed* I wanna be added back hon. *waves her hand frantically*

[hana-chan-doesu.livejournal.com]

asti oneechan!<3 :)

please..add me?

[ami007.livejournal.com]

Hmm..maybe I should make a friends-cut too? I did it last time, but wierdly..some of the people who asked me to re-add them stayed silent forever afterwards and they keep writing posts I dunno what to comment about. So what's the point of asking me to re-add them? I just dun get it.

Will you re-add me? I read your entries alwiz, I just dun comment often..esp now that I'm loaded with deadlines at work ^^; ..last time I was writing pages and pages of stuff coz I was having vacation for a few months after finishing my study. But now since I've crazily furthered my study again, I dun have that much free time..gomen nasai. But if you want to reach me, just ping me at YM and I'll reply to your offline messages :P

[joyceandou.livejournal.com]

*arm hochreiss und an Anke's Bein klammer* Ich weiß, ich bin ein schlechter Commenter, aber ich mag bleiben! *hundeaugen aufsetz*

[kare-chan.livejournal.com]

*Hundeaugen aufsetz*
*Unterlippe vorschieb*
*Augenspringbrunnen anstell*
*leichtes Unterlippen zittern hinzu füg*

Darf ich bleiben? :3
Ich... öh... kann ich dich mit Keksen bestechen? :3 Schoki ist ja nicht so deines ^_^;;

[rabenkraehe.livejournal.com]

*raises hand*
Can I stay?

[oova.livejournal.com]

mh.... da hat mans.
was soll ich in son comment schreiben? T_T
ehm ehm ehm....
ääähm.
add me.
^^
*schatz knuffl*

[kyko-camui.livejournal.com]

ah doch nicht so kurz bevor ich ins bett bin XD
jetzt siehts so aus, als wär ich total langsam XD
meine maus... *schniff* addest du mich? ôo
ansonsten muss ich dich über icq belästigen XD
*knuddel* hab dich lieb ^^

[anei-no-tsuki.livejournal.com]

*seriously had a heart attack* For a second I thought something else happened... 0_0

I hope I'm still good enough to be your friend and added back?
*hugs*

[lurasa.livejournal.com]

ich würd gern bleiben ich bin aufjedenfall noch interssiert an dem was du schreibst! *hugs*

[tsaryu.livejournal.com]

ich poste hier zwar sehr selten ein Reply, aber bisher hab ich eigentlich jeden Post gelesen. Könnt ich auch auf Deiner Friends-Liste bleiben? ^_^;

[applebeesvirus.livejournal.com]

I definitely want to stay. Well, I never comment and stuff but I always read your journal... :)

[gakuto-lover.livejournal.com]

Würdest du mich bitte wieder verlinken??^^

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

I'm not going to ask you to re-add me :)
I do read almost all of your entries, but I think "friendship" between two persons is a matter of two as well and I don't feel good with myself "asking" for anything hehe.

Anyway... I think this method is quite useless, because if someone never comments on your entries and now come here and ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

[keishiiikeis.livejournal.com]

Could i have you added back? This past year, reading your posts have given me strength during my lows, and i dont wanna not be able to follow you anymore =(

[mary-in-wonder.livejournal.com]

OMG this friends-cut craze reached you too o.o nowadays everybody does this...#_#
would it disturb you if i were on your flist again? *.* <3333333