haebin: (Misc 10)
haebin ([personal profile] haebin) wrote2007-08-25 12:32 am

FRIENDS-CUT

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like [livejournal.com profile] dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

[identity profile] isha-chan.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
*lifts a hand*

I want to be added. I want to be your friend *_*

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Honey, YOU are my angel. Of course I'll friend you back :) *huggles* :333

[identity profile] isha-chan.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
\^^/

I miss you so very much, my Dear...

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I miss you too ♥
I love you, don't forget that *hugs again*

[identity profile] louchette.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
*makes sad puppy face*

you know, i know...

grosse liebe <3333

k

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi :)
*reknuff*
Du musst dir keine Gedanken machen, wenn du noch nicht so viel geschrieben hast. Es geht eher darum, dass ich irgendwie über 100 friends hatte und geschrieben haben immer nur die gleichen. Die werden auch weiterhin hier bleiben, mit Sicherheit. Nur bin ich es auch irgendwo leid, dass irgendwie jeder mitlesen kann, wie es mir geht ^^
Deshalb eigentlich der Cut ;)

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Awwww, that is so right :D
I love you too ♥♥♥

[identity profile] fang-yin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
sorry, wenn ich nicht wirklich viel in deine Einträge schreibe, ich versuche es so oft ich kann, aber ich vergesse es einfach sehr schnell. Ich schaffe es noch nicht mal bei mir einen Eintrag zu schreiben, aber ich versuche so oft ich kann bei dir rein zuschreiben, und ich würde mich freuen wenn ich in deiner Friends-List bleiben könnte.

[identity profile] omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
can I be added back? i want to be your friend :) ♥

[identity profile] gackutolove.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
dear i want to be your friend too

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Klar, das ist doch kein Ding ;)
Ich kenn dich ja auch persönlich. Und nur weil man hier nicht jeden Tag reinschreibt, muss das ja nicht gleich heißen, dass ich jeglichen Kontakt abbrechen will *knuff*
Geht mir nur darum, dass ich einfach Menschen ermöglichen möchte, zu sagen, wenn sie kein Interesse haben, hier mitzulesen, können sie auch draußen bleiben ^^

[identity profile] gackutolove.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
yay asti added me

ich leibe dich dear

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course :D *huggles* :3

[identity profile] chani-atreides.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I never comment and I loooove my smilie entries, can I stay anyway? I just don't know what to say, but I'd like to stay updated because I am interested :X

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, I added you back ;) *huggles*

[identity profile] omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com 2007-08-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
yay 8D thank you! *huggies*
i'm sorry if my comments go on & off. sometimes i comment a lot & other times I fall off the face of the earth. i'm sorry xD;;

[identity profile] nukucamui.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
:( Im sorry I dont comment often. I rarely comment on LJ. I like to read how you're doing though, and you are often in my thoughts. I know I should comment more, and I keep telling myself that. I promise I'll start more. Could I be readded back to your friends list? :(

[identity profile] danmaku.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
*jumps up to be noticed* I wanna be added back hon. *waves her hand frantically*

[identity profile] hana-chan-doesu.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
asti oneechan!<3 :)

please..add me?

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
You're welcome *hugs*
Ah, don't worry *hugs again*
It's not a bad thing when you don't comment every entry of mine ^^
It's not necessary. But I was a little bit annoyed about some people who wants to be friended withe me without a reason ... and I ask myself: Why are they here? I mean, they never wrote a comment or something like that. So, I made a new friends-cut. And it showed me one thing. The people I like and love, they make a comment here and I'm really happy about it =D

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, Imoutochan. Don't worry, I added you back *huggles* ♥~

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
*laughs*
Don't worry, of course I added you back :D
*huggles* ♥~~~

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
So, I don't wanna force you to write comments, when you don't feel so. But I was a little bit angry about many people, they friended me the last time and never made a comment. So ... what do they want from me? I said, that this lj is extremely personal and important for me and it's a strange feeling to know, that strangers can read your intimate thoughts and fears. It's not so easy to talk about that, you know?
But okay, I'll add you back.

[identity profile] haebin.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
Interested? That sounds like I would be a labor rat O_o;;
But okay, I know you long enough ^^

[identity profile] hana-chan-doesu.livejournal.com 2007-08-25 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
:D thank you<33 *huggles back*

Page 1 of 7