FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com]

can I be added back? i want to be your friend :) ♥

[gackutolove.livejournal.com]

dear i want to be your friend too

[gackutolove.livejournal.com]

yay asti added me

ich leibe dich dear

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Don't worry, I added you back ;) *huggles*

[omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com]

yay 8D thank you! *huggies*
i'm sorry if my comments go on & off. sometimes i comment a lot & other times I fall off the face of the earth. i'm sorry xD;;

[haebin.livejournal.com]

You're welcome *hugs*
Ah, don't worry *hugs again*
It's not a bad thing when you don't comment every entry of mine ^^
It's not necessary. But I was a little bit annoyed about some people who wants to be friended withe me without a reason ... and I ask myself: Why are they here? I mean, they never wrote a comment or something like that. So, I made a new friends-cut. And it showed me one thing. The people I like and love, they make a comment here and I'm really happy about it =D

[omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com]

Mm I know what you mean, people did that to me too. I've been thinking of making a friends-cut for a while & then stopped it, but I think you've inspired me to go on with it for the same reason you had.
that's good! it's not too good to have too many people that are just there to be there, so it's good the people you really want to keep commented :)
i'll try to comment more often, I have to stop going on & off like I do xD

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Of course :D *huggles* :3