FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[ami007.livejournal.com]

Hmm..maybe I should make a friends-cut too? I did it last time, but wierdly..some of the people who asked me to re-add them stayed silent forever afterwards and they keep writing posts I dunno what to comment about. So what's the point of asking me to re-add them? I just dun get it.

Will you re-add me? I read your entries alwiz, I just dun comment often..esp now that I'm loaded with deadlines at work ^^; ..last time I was writing pages and pages of stuff coz I was having vacation for a few months after finishing my study. But now since I've crazily furthered my study again, I dun have that much free time..gomen nasai. But if you want to reach me, just ping me at YM and I'll reply to your offline messages :P

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Of course I add you back, don't worry *huggles*
And I don't wanna force you to write a comment. I know, that you are very busy :)
But I had the same problem you have right now. So many people ask me, to be his/her friend ... and then they never comment o_O
I mean, what is my lj? Some kind of amusement? o_O;;
For me it's really important and I don't wanna anymore that people can read my inner thoughts. But you are always welcome, Ami :D *huggles* ♥~