FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Ach, du musst dir doch mal gar keine Gedanken machen *knuddel* ;D
Geht ja auch nicht gegen die Leute persönlich oder so, nur irgendwie ... es sind immer dieselben, die commenten (du natürlich auch *g*) und ich hatte Leute drinnen, die ... ja, ich weiß auch nicht, was die hier wollen ^^
Aber du kennst das mit dem Friends-Cut, gelle? ^^

[joyceandou.livejournal.com]

Hatte den Gedanken letztens aber auch...98 Leute auf der Liste und irgendwie antworten immer die üblichen Verdächtigen! XD Aber da ich selber kein guter Commenter bin, halte ich mich lieber zurück! ^^''

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Yup, bei mir genauso ^^
Es sind immer dieselben, aber das macht nix ^^
Ich hab lieber ein paar enge "Freunde", als 200 in der Liste, die nie was schreiben ^^

So bin ich auch zufrieden :)