FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

I'm not going to ask you to re-add me :)
I do read almost all of your entries, but I think "friendship" between two persons is a matter of two as well and I don't feel good with myself "asking" for anything hehe.

Anyway... I think this method is quite useless, because if someone never comments on your entries and now come here and ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Esti *hugs*
Do you know, what's funny? I re-added you before you gave me an answer, because I thought, you would write something like that ;)

I know, some people could think, that a friends-cut it's a little bit offending. But I saw one good thing. All the people I like and I'm talking a lot, they posted a comment in this entry. And I saw, I was not wrong with my feelings :)
And the rest of the people, who are friended me (who knows why o_O) and never commented before, they didn't wrote a comment here. So, I was not wrong ;)

ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

But you are wrong ;)
applebeesvirus wanted to stay here, but she wrote never ever a comment. And I said no :)

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

I'm very glad you re-added me ^______^ *hugs* And it's interesting that you did it before reading my comment hehe, it shows we can manage to know each other at least a little bit through internet :DD

but she wrote never ever a comment. And I said no :)
Then I'm glad about being wrong hehe xDD Great (http://photobucket.com)

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

BTW (sorry for the spam hehe), before leaving my comment I took a look at my f-list and you hadn't me added O_o

[haebin.livejournal.com]

O_o;;
Damn LJ *kicks it*
Moah ... this thing never do what I want. So, I added you again. And I hope, it finally works ... if not, I will punish it >D *cuddles*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

And to be honest, I was a little bit proud of myself to saying 'no' to her :)