FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Hups, da hab ich mich total vertan ^^
Gomen, gomen ^^

Oh ja ... wenn ich die Zeit zurückdrehen könnte, würde ich einiges anders machen...

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Hm ... ich weiß nicht, ob ich sagen kann, das sollte so sein. Ich mein ... irgendwie ist das schwer zu erklären. Klar, einige Sachen habe ich natürlich entschieden und mir gedacht, hey, wen interessiert's, ich komm schon klar damit. Heute sehe ich das anders. Aber es gab auch Dinge in meinem Leben, die waren um einiges brutaler als ne falsche Entscheidung. Ich glaube, damit komme ich heute noch nicht klar.

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Ich denke, 'verdrängen' ist so eine Art Überlebensmechanismus :o

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Ja, das Problem kenne ich nur allzu gut :|