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FRIENDS-CUT
I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like
dears. That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
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Ich bin zufällig auf dein LJ gestoßen und wollte fragen, obs dich stören würd, wenn ich dich adde. Du scheinst echt interessant zu sein und dein Musikgeschmack ist schon mal ausgezeichnet *_*
Ich war übrigens auf dem Gazettekonzert in München <3 sie waren so toll <3
wär schön wenns klappen würd ._.
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Klar, neue Leute kennen zu lernen, ist immer ne schöne Sache =)
Ich adde dich auf alle Fälle zurück :3
Ja, Gazette ist toll *_*
Will mehr ^^
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dankeschön <3
was sagt mann denn jetzt? auf gute zusammenarbeit? XDDD
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Auf gute Freundschaft :)