Friends-Cut
Sep. 19th, 2008 06:20 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
haebinActually it’s kind of „out“ again, but I decided, to make another friends-cut. In my life so many things are going to change and I decided to give my LJ a “resfreshing” update.
I thought about it a while longer, but I always stopped myself because I didn’t dare to do it. Because I’d feel guilty. Because I was scared what people would think about me when I de-friend them.
But I think that time is over. Priorities change. People change.
And I take the word “friends” in LJ really serious. The people on my friends-list are really important to me, I trust them and I would like to meet them in real life anytime.
But I don’t feel like this with everyone in here and so I decided to take these people off of my friends-list. It’s nothing personal and you shouldn’t feel hurt.
You are all nice people, friendly and with a big heart. But our ways don’t go the same path. And I just want people in my LJ who walk the same road.
If I take you off my friends-list then it won’t mean that I start to ignore you, or I start to backbite.
It’s just the one reason that we go different ways and I’d appreciate it, if you would respect my decision.
This LJ is mostly a place about me. And about my family, my friends and my way of living. And like people change, this LJ is gonna change.
That means, if you notice that I took you off my friendslist, you don’t have to promise to comment more often or to read my entries more often.
It’s just about the different ways.
I wish you anyway a lot of luck and success and I’m thankful for the time we talked. I enjoyed it and I met wonderful people.
In this spirit
Take care ;)
Anke
I thought about it a while longer, but I always stopped myself because I didn’t dare to do it. Because I’d feel guilty. Because I was scared what people would think about me when I de-friend them.
But I think that time is over. Priorities change. People change.
And I take the word “friends” in LJ really serious. The people on my friends-list are really important to me, I trust them and I would like to meet them in real life anytime.
But I don’t feel like this with everyone in here and so I decided to take these people off of my friends-list. It’s nothing personal and you shouldn’t feel hurt.
You are all nice people, friendly and with a big heart. But our ways don’t go the same path. And I just want people in my LJ who walk the same road.
If I take you off my friends-list then it won’t mean that I start to ignore you, or I start to backbite.
It’s just the one reason that we go different ways and I’d appreciate it, if you would respect my decision.
This LJ is mostly a place about me. And about my family, my friends and my way of living. And like people change, this LJ is gonna change.
That means, if you notice that I took you off my friendslist, you don’t have to promise to comment more often or to read my entries more often.
It’s just about the different ways.
I wish you anyway a lot of luck and success and I’m thankful for the time we talked. I enjoyed it and I met wonderful people.
In this spirit
Take care ;)
Anke
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Date: 2008-09-19 05:16 pm (UTC)Thanks for keeping me, hun. I love & respect you & what you write, & I hope now you feel a bit better with your journal & yourself *huggies*
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Date: 2008-09-20 12:02 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-09-21 06:38 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-09-21 07:35 pm (UTC)Thank you! *glompz you & don't let go*