Friends-Cut

[haebin]

Actually it’s kind of „out“ again, but I decided, to make another friends-cut. In my life so many things are going to change and I decided to give my LJ a “resfreshing” update.
I thought about it a while longer, but I always stopped myself because I didn’t dare to do it. Because I’d feel guilty. Because I was scared what people would think about me when I de-friend them.
But I think that time is over. Priorities change. People change.
And I take the word “friends” in LJ really serious. The people on my friends-list are really important to me, I trust them and I would like to meet them in real life anytime.
But I don’t feel like this with everyone in here and so I decided to take these people off of my friends-list. It’s nothing personal and you shouldn’t feel hurt.
You are all nice people, friendly and with a big heart. But our ways don’t go the same path. And I just want people in my LJ who walk the same road.
If I take you off my friends-list then it won’t mean that I start to ignore you, or I start to backbite.
It’s just the one reason that we go different ways and I’d appreciate it, if you would respect my decision.
This LJ is mostly a place about me. And about my family, my friends and my way of living. And like people change, this LJ is gonna change.
That means, if you notice that I took you off my friendslist, you don’t have to promise to comment more often or to read my entries more often.
It’s just about the different ways.

I wish you anyway a lot of luck and success and I’m thankful for the time we talked. I enjoyed it and I met wonderful people.

In this spirit
Take care ;)

Anke

Comments

[isha-chan.livejournal.com]

Like I said before, it's totally okay to make this cut. Your LJ is a very personal place and you're the one who decides about who is allowed to read and who isn't.

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Thank you, "Mouse". You know, it is always very hard for me to do that, but I think the next weeks/months this LJ will be more personal as usual, so I made this decision. It is that I don't trust some people, but that is not their fault. It is more like the time to know each other was to short to get this faith in them.