FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[minime17.livejournal.com]

I try to comment as often as I can,but I can rarely get to the internet lately.And sometimes when I want to say something,I read the rest of the comments and somebody else has already said what I wanted.And then I think-what's the point of writing the same thing again.
So...I won't force you to re-add me,but I would really like to stay.

[http://users.livejournal.com/_ananda_/]

I would like to remain on your friends list Anke, but only if you feel comfortable having me there. I know what it's like having people on your friends list you don't feel comfortable with, it's not a nice feeling.

I would miss you though ;_;

[novalee17.livejournal.com]

ich hoff, ich bin nicht zu spät... :( ich weiß, ich commente auch nicht wirklich oft, vor allem in letzter zeit nicht, aber mich interessiert wirklich wie es dir geht und was du machst. also, würd ich auch gern auf deiner flist bleiben... :)

[beckilein.livejournal.com]

Öh ich auch ._. hoffe ich doch mal....bitte.

[youki-moonlight.livejournal.com]

Ehm...ich weis, ich bin ein sehr schlechter LJist...ich schreib kaum Einträge, ich kommentiere selten...merkt man auch daran, das ich erst heute deinen Post gelesen hab.
Würde mich sehr freuen, wenn du mich trotzdem wieder als friend addest. ^-^

[ezukii.livejournal.com]

erm, add me back? ;_; I wanna be your friend.
My commenting died for a while *fails*

[energetic-red.livejournal.com]

I know I'm not writing that much comments. But it's not because I'm not interested in what you have to say, it's because I don't know what to say.

I can totally understand your decision but I just wanted to let you know that I would like to be your friend.

[pixiezdust.livejournal.com]

Not commenting often doesnt always mean not reading. Sometimes some of my friends are busy so I understand when they don't comment. Unless its those who NEVER commented from the start.

I don't know. I do friend-cuts occassionally too. But I don't quite understand how this method works. there will be people who don't comment and still ask to be added, then you'll still end up with the same thing? So how does this friend-cut work?

So far people I've "cut" are those who've not commented in my LJ for a long time, or whom never updated for a long time. Then I don't see the point of being friends since we don't comment/read each others' LJ. and I'll cut them silently without the need to explain myself. i'm bad. but i dont care too much abt them

[isabonita.livejournal.com]

OMG OMG *sofort ne message schreib*
nene, aber du hasts chon recht, ich merk das auch schon, aber du hast ja noch viel viel mehr freunde....wie lang biste denn nun schon bei LJ?
naja~ übrigens, du magst anna tsuchiya?
supi ^.^
ich liebe den Song AH AH und rose und taste my skin, ach un eigentlicha lle XD
is nur ich kennw enige die sie auch kennen, deswegen war ich gradn bissl überrascht, abe rumso besser ^^

bussi
isa~

[vanilla69.livejournal.com]

Sorry about the late answer. It has a reason (which is not you, don't worry).

I'm making it up to you, because I don't want to burst in your life~ (though I already did somehow xD')

[alley-cat-009.livejournal.com]

*waves arms in the air and jumps up and down* I want to be your friend! PICK ME PICK ME!!
<3
*huggles*

[negoto.livejournal.com]

hello dear, i realised that i havent been keeping up with you. i blame the busy schedule.

i hope you are ok. *hugs*

[ryoko293.livejournal.com]

My PC was down when you did the f-cut and I was wondering if you've left LJ when I saw that I was cut ^^;
add me back? <3

[itsukanomelody.livejournal.com]

i know im not good at commenting. but i always read what you write. and i try to talk with u as much as possible.
lately i limited the time i spent online no almost none.
im trying really hard on that! XD i just realized im absolutely internet-addicted and comp-sticked
and had to change that


BTW did u get postcards? :D

[into--dust.livejournal.com]

Hi *wink*
Ich bin zufällig auf dein LJ gestoßen und wollte fragen, obs dich stören würd, wenn ich dich adde. Du scheinst echt interessant zu sein und dein Musikgeschmack ist schon mal ausgezeichnet *_*

Ich war übrigens auf dem Gazettekonzert in München <3 sie waren so toll <3

wär schön wenns klappen würd ._.

[mizu-ki.livejournal.com]

Can add me as a friend?

I read everything you wrote up there and understand that i have nothing to gain except informations about your life. I want to hear it anyway if especially if Gackt-related (one way or another).

Ato de.