FRIENDS-CUT
Aug. 25th, 2007 12:32 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
haebinI really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like
dears. That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
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Date: 2007-08-28 03:39 pm (UTC)I'm making it up to you, because I don't want to burst in your life~ (though I already did somehow xD')
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Date: 2007-08-29 05:27 am (UTC)I know, not everyone can be so often like me in the internet ^^ *laughs*
I add you back, because I know you personal and you are a lovely person ;)
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Date: 2007-08-30 02:52 pm (UTC)Though I'll maybe not comment this week and the next. *has some english guy as exchange at home* ^^' But I promise, I will comment even more later after all^-^
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Date: 2007-08-30 11:19 pm (UTC)Ah, you don't stress yourself because of me, okay? Enjoy the time with the english guy *laughs*
See ya in one or two weeks ;) *cuddles*