FRIENDS-CUT
Aug. 25th, 2007 12:32 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
haebinI really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?
Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)
Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like
dears. That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)
Take care
Anke
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Date: 2007-09-06 10:13 am (UTC)Ja, ich bin in Ordnung *knuddel*
Ich war nur an dem Punkt angekommen, dass ich echt mal all die Leute rausgeschmissen hab, die hier seit Monaten rumgammeln (das heißt, nichts schreiben). Ich hab realisiert, dass es mir lieber ist, "weniger Freunde" zu haben ... aber die sind sehr wertvoll für mich.
Und dass du dabei bleibst, ist doch natürlich klar *noch mehr knuddel*
Ich hab nur vergessen, dich gleich wieder zuzufügen ^^
Gestern, als ich dann deine Nachricht bekam, ist es mir wieder eingefallen *blush*
Und dein zweites LJ is hier natürlich auch dabei ;)
Jaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, die Karte ist angekommen :D *hüpf*
Was hab ich mich gefreut :D
Meine erste Karte aus Japan \*___*/
bekommst demnächst nochmal post.*zwinker*
O.O!