Friends-Cut

[haebin]

Actually it’s kind of „out“ again, but I decided, to make another friends-cut. In my life so many things are going to change and I decided to give my LJ a “resfreshing” update.
I thought about it a while longer, but I always stopped myself because I didn’t dare to do it. Because I’d feel guilty. Because I was scared what people would think about me when I de-friend them.
But I think that time is over. Priorities change. People change.
And I take the word “friends” in LJ really serious. The people on my friends-list are really important to me, I trust them and I would like to meet them in real life anytime.
But I don’t feel like this with everyone in here and so I decided to take these people off of my friends-list. It’s nothing personal and you shouldn’t feel hurt.
You are all nice people, friendly and with a big heart. But our ways don’t go the same path. And I just want people in my LJ who walk the same road.
If I take you off my friends-list then it won’t mean that I start to ignore you, or I start to backbite.
It’s just the one reason that we go different ways and I’d appreciate it, if you would respect my decision.
This LJ is mostly a place about me. And about my family, my friends and my way of living. And like people change, this LJ is gonna change.
That means, if you notice that I took you off my friendslist, you don’t have to promise to comment more often or to read my entries more often.
It’s just about the different ways.

I wish you anyway a lot of luck and success and I’m thankful for the time we talked. I enjoyed it and I met wonderful people.

In this spirit
Take care ;)

Anke

Comments

[littleflapper.livejournal.com]

I understand even I am sad about what happened to you and your family and as well that I was removed too :( I will keep you on ym own flist, you´re always welcomed, just please take care and even what happened in your family lately is really sad, please don ´t forget there is always hope! *hugs*

[omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com]

You shouldn't feel guilty about removing people, or what you may write in your journal.
Thanks for keeping me, hun. I love & respect you & what you write, & I hope now you feel a bit better with your journal & yourself *huggies*

[minime17.livejournal.com]

I'm sad,but I respect your decision.
Please,hold on and be strong,whatever happens.I will still be with you in my thoughts.

[louchette.livejournal.com]

you know i will be here, and try to support you no matter what you do or what happens to you. <333

[vickienash.livejournal.com]

I removed a few people a little while back too but I hope that you'll keep me here.

*hugs and ♥s*

[isha-chan.livejournal.com]

Like I said before, it's totally okay to make this cut. Your LJ is a very personal place and you're the one who decides about who is allowed to read and who isn't.

[nukucamui.livejournal.com]

*hugs* We understand and I'm sure we all will respect your decision. ^3^ *chu*

[ezukii.livejournal.com]

oh...you removed me....well....i respect that decision....if it was cuz i wasnt on much..then im sorry....tho i wish id still be on your friends list..