FRIENDS-CUT

[haebin]

I really thought a long time about taking this step is the right thing to do.
And I always kept on asking myself, is it the right thing? Will I hurt someone with this? But… in the end it’s not about the others. It’s about me, right?
And because of that I take this step. I will make a complete friends-cut. And delete all “friends” for the beginning. The question is because, why?

Clear answer: Because probably only a third is reading in here and I start to have the feeling, that most of the people are not interested in the things I write. So, why still be “friends”?
I don’t have to write comments in other LJs for people, who never write a comment in here.
I don’t await from everyone to comment every entry. But I noticed that some people are just friended. And I asked myself… why?
People I know for a long time, since the Gackt-concert in Taiwan, people I’m talking about messengers, don’t have to worry. Just write a short message in here and you’re back-friended ;)
People who never wrote something in here or just write senseless smilie-entries don’t have to read if I feel good or bad ;)

Icon-entries are always public and if I upload something, then I will share it with communities like dears.
That means you don’t have to friend me because of some icon entries or uploads =)
All entries which are “friends only” are extremely personal. And I don’t want to let anyone read them anymore =)

Take care
Anke

Comments

[isha-chan.livejournal.com]

*lifts a hand*

I want to be added. I want to be your friend *_*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Honey, YOU are my angel. Of course I'll friend you back :) *huggles* :333

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Hi :)
*reknuff*
Du musst dir keine Gedanken machen, wenn du noch nicht so viel geschrieben hast. Es geht eher darum, dass ich irgendwie über 100 friends hatte und geschrieben haben immer nur die gleichen. Die werden auch weiterhin hier bleiben, mit Sicherheit. Nur bin ich es auch irgendwo leid, dass irgendwie jeder mitlesen kann, wie es mir geht ^^
Deshalb eigentlich der Cut ;)

[louchette.livejournal.com]

*makes sad puppy face*

you know, i know...

grosse liebe <3333

k

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Awwww, that is so right :D
I love you too ♥♥♥

[fang-yin.livejournal.com]

sorry, wenn ich nicht wirklich viel in deine Einträge schreibe, ich versuche es so oft ich kann, aber ich vergesse es einfach sehr schnell. Ich schaffe es noch nicht mal bei mir einen Eintrag zu schreiben, aber ich versuche so oft ich kann bei dir rein zuschreiben, und ich würde mich freuen wenn ich in deiner Friends-List bleiben könnte.

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Klar, das ist doch kein Ding ;)
Ich kenn dich ja auch persönlich. Und nur weil man hier nicht jeden Tag reinschreibt, muss das ja nicht gleich heißen, dass ich jeglichen Kontakt abbrechen will *knuff*
Geht mir nur darum, dass ich einfach Menschen ermöglichen möchte, zu sagen, wenn sie kein Interesse haben, hier mitzulesen, können sie auch draußen bleiben ^^

[omg-its-gackt.livejournal.com]

can I be added back? i want to be your friend :) ♥

[gackutolove.livejournal.com]

dear i want to be your friend too

[chani-atreides.livejournal.com]

Well, I never comment and I loooove my smilie entries, can I stay anyway? I just don't know what to say, but I'd like to stay updated because I am interested :X

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Interested? That sounds like I would be a labor rat O_o;;
But okay, I know you long enough ^^

[nukucamui.livejournal.com]

:( Im sorry I dont comment often. I rarely comment on LJ. I like to read how you're doing though, and you are often in my thoughts. I know I should comment more, and I keep telling myself that. I promise I'll start more. Could I be readded back to your friends list? :(

[haebin.livejournal.com]

So, I don't wanna force you to write comments, when you don't feel so. But I was a little bit angry about many people, they friended me the last time and never made a comment. So ... what do they want from me? I said, that this lj is extremely personal and important for me and it's a strange feeling to know, that strangers can read your intimate thoughts and fears. It's not so easy to talk about that, you know?
But okay, I'll add you back.

[danmaku.livejournal.com]

*jumps up to be noticed* I wanna be added back hon. *waves her hand frantically*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

*laughs*
Don't worry, of course I added you back :D
*huggles* ♥~~~

[hana-chan-doesu.livejournal.com]

asti oneechan!<3 :)

please..add me?

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Ah, Imoutochan. Don't worry, I added you back *huggles* ♥~

[ami007.livejournal.com]

Hmm..maybe I should make a friends-cut too? I did it last time, but wierdly..some of the people who asked me to re-add them stayed silent forever afterwards and they keep writing posts I dunno what to comment about. So what's the point of asking me to re-add them? I just dun get it.

Will you re-add me? I read your entries alwiz, I just dun comment often..esp now that I'm loaded with deadlines at work ^^; ..last time I was writing pages and pages of stuff coz I was having vacation for a few months after finishing my study. But now since I've crazily furthered my study again, I dun have that much free time..gomen nasai. But if you want to reach me, just ping me at YM and I'll reply to your offline messages :P

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Of course I add you back, don't worry *huggles*
And I don't wanna force you to write a comment. I know, that you are very busy :)
But I had the same problem you have right now. So many people ask me, to be his/her friend ... and then they never comment o_O
I mean, what is my lj? Some kind of amusement? o_O;;
For me it's really important and I don't wanna anymore that people can read my inner thoughts. But you are always welcome, Ami :D *huggles* ♥~

[joyceandou.livejournal.com]

*arm hochreiss und an Anke's Bein klammer* Ich weiß, ich bin ein schlechter Commenter, aber ich mag bleiben! *hundeaugen aufsetz*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Ach, du musst dir doch mal gar keine Gedanken machen *knuddel* ;D
Geht ja auch nicht gegen die Leute persönlich oder so, nur irgendwie ... es sind immer dieselben, die commenten (du natürlich auch *g*) und ich hatte Leute drinnen, die ... ja, ich weiß auch nicht, was die hier wollen ^^
Aber du kennst das mit dem Friends-Cut, gelle? ^^

[kare-chan.livejournal.com]

*Hundeaugen aufsetz*
*Unterlippe vorschieb*
*Augenspringbrunnen anstell*
*leichtes Unterlippen zittern hinzu füg*

Darf ich bleiben? :3
Ich... öh... kann ich dich mit Keksen bestechen? :3 Schoki ist ja nicht so deines ^_^;;

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Ach Mauserl, DU musst mich doch nicht bestechen :D
*knuddel*
Natürlich bleibst du ^_______^

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Nein Rosie, du hast definitiv nichts falsch gemacht. Und bitte, mache dir keine Gedanken um das commenten. Dieser Friends-Cut ging nicht gegen Leute, die ich persönlich kenne ... wie dich :)
Ich hatte nur zu viele Leute als Freunde, die nie etwas geschrieben haben. Und ich hab in einem Anflug einfach alle gelöscht. Aber du bist mir so wichtig wie immer und ich möchte dich nicht vermissen :)

[rabenkraehe.livejournal.com]

*raises hand*
Can I stay?

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Natürlich :D
*knuddel* :3

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Gerne doch ^___^
Ich bin nur leider im msn nicht so oft online wie im ICQ ;)

[oova.livejournal.com]

mh.... da hat mans.
was soll ich in son comment schreiben? T_T
ehm ehm ehm....
ääähm.
add me.
^^
*schatz knuffl*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

*lol*
Du bist knuffig :P
Natürlich add ich dich, du bist doch mein Schatz :3

[kyko-camui.livejournal.com]

ah doch nicht so kurz bevor ich ins bett bin XD
jetzt siehts so aus, als wär ich total langsam XD
meine maus... *schniff* addest du mich? ôo
ansonsten muss ich dich über icq belästigen XD
*knuddel* hab dich lieb ^^

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Natürlich adde ich dich, das ist doch gar keine Frage :3

[anei-no-tsuki.livejournal.com]

*seriously had a heart attack* For a second I thought something else happened... 0_0

I hope I'm still good enough to be your friend and added back?
*hugs*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

*huggles*
No, you don't have to get a heart attack *huggles again*

And you are always good enough to be my friend. I love you ♥~

[lurasa.livejournal.com]

ich würd gern bleiben ich bin aufjedenfall noch interssiert an dem was du schreibst! *hugs*

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Okay ^-^

[tsaryu.livejournal.com]

ich poste hier zwar sehr selten ein Reply, aber bisher hab ich eigentlich jeden Post gelesen. Könnt ich auch auf Deiner Friends-Liste bleiben? ^_^;

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Klar doch, Tsa :D

[applebeesvirus.livejournal.com]

I definitely want to stay. Well, I never comment and stuff but I always read your journal... :)

[haebin.livejournal.com]

You know ... I made the entry because of such people like you. You never commented in my LJ, you never wrote one fucking word, but you wanna read what's going on in my life? Sorry, but my LJ is not a place for the amusement of others.

[gakuto-lover.livejournal.com]

Würdest du mich bitte wieder verlinken??^^

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Verlinken? oO
Ich denke, du meinst re-adden, oder? ^^

[shiva--k.livejournal.com]

I'm not going to ask you to re-add me :)
I do read almost all of your entries, but I think "friendship" between two persons is a matter of two as well and I don't feel good with myself "asking" for anything hehe.

Anyway... I think this method is quite useless, because if someone never comments on your entries and now come here and ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Esti *hugs*
Do you know, what's funny? I re-added you before you gave me an answer, because I thought, you would write something like that ;)

I know, some people could think, that a friends-cut it's a little bit offending. But I saw one good thing. All the people I like and I'm talking a lot, they posted a comment in this entry. And I saw, I was not wrong with my feelings :)
And the rest of the people, who are friended me (who knows why o_O) and never commented before, they didn't wrote a comment here. So, I was not wrong ;)

ask you "please please please" to re-add her, are you going to say "NO"? I don't think so ;)

But you are wrong ;)
applebeesvirus wanted to stay here, but she wrote never ever a comment. And I said no :)

[keishiiikeis.livejournal.com]

Could i have you added back? This past year, reading your posts have given me strength during my lows, and i dont wanna not be able to follow you anymore =(

[haebin.livejournal.com]

Okay. I know, you commented here in my LJ. I don't wanna force you to comment, but many people here where my friends and I don't know why. And that's so irritating...

[mary-in-wonder.livejournal.com]

OMG this friends-cut craze reached you too o.o nowadays everybody does this...#_#
would it disturb you if i were on your flist again? *.* <3333333

[haebin.livejournal.com]

What O.O
Everyone is making a friends-cut? Really O_O
Wow ... I didn't know this. But hey, dearie, you don't have to be worry *hugs*
You are not disturbing me. I love you too much that you could disturbing me *huggles you again* :333